Comments on: Where We Are Now http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/ raising kids and eyebrows since 1992 Thu, 04 Aug 2016 15:36:39 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.1.26 By: jonny http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8310 Mon, 18 Apr 2011 02:58:25 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8310 Beautiful. Wonderful. Indeed priceless.

]]> By: JanetB http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8309 Mon, 18 Apr 2011 02:36:40 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8309 Thanks for the update, Jonny.
Sounds like he’s winding down. My dad (who was 86) didn’t have anything to eat or drink for his last 3 days – his body just wouldn’t accept nourishment anymore.
His last few hours, he was quite restless. My sister (a hospice nurse) was sitting with him…she grabbed a hymnal from the nursing home’s chapel & sang some of Daddy’s favorite old hymns to him. He quieted down…then, he looked at her & smiled…and went Home.
Folks, it just doesn’t get any sweeter than that.

And, Tori – you are smack-dab in the middle of God’s precious gift to you: Seeing your dad off on his journey Home. That’s just…priceless.

Sending love & hugs & lots of prayers…

]]> By: jonny http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8308 Mon, 18 Apr 2011 01:06:47 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8308 This just up on Tori’s facebook profile…

“Dad’s holding steady. Weakening, bedfast, sleeping most of the time, not really eating or drinking anything much- but smiling & loving us.”

]]> By: MostlySunny http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8307 Sun, 17 Apr 2011 22:28:27 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8307 JanetB – SOOOO CUTE!!!

Agree with Gramma Jac – He WAS here!! God with us!

]]> By: LindaB http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8306 Sun, 17 Apr 2011 18:44:17 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8306 Checkin’ back for any news. Still praying.

JanetB, that IS so cute!! Love it!

]]> By: Gramma Jac http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8305 Sun, 17 Apr 2011 10:57:13 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8305 JanetB, thanks for letting me start my day with a smile! Out of the mouth of babes!! And the reality is, He WAS there!

Still praying!

]]> By: JanetB http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8304 Sun, 17 Apr 2011 07:20:20 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8304 Oh, wow. Tori darling…does this bring back memories…not all of them pleasant, yet all are treasured. If that makes sense at all…

Our experiences with hospice were all good. The best part is that they will see to the fine details of your dad’s care – leaving all of you to just soak up this time that you have left with him, however long that will be. It’s such a blessing.

I just feel like sharing this:

My cousin’s daughter-in-law’s (Devon) mother just passed away a few weeks ago – hospice was caring for her for quite some time at Nate & Devon’s home. After she died, Devon took their 3-year-old daughter, Kennedy, into the room to say goodbye to “Mamie.” Then, Kennedy scampered off to play…people came to take the body away…Kennedy came back into the room, saw the empty bed & asked where was Mamie? Her other grandmother told her that Jesus had taken Mamie to Heaven. Kennedy said, “He was HERE?!”

Praying for all of you. Just hold on…

]]> By: belinda http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8303 Sun, 17 Apr 2011 01:26:41 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8303 You know you and your family have been and will continue to be in our prayers. I was just praying for your sweet Mamma this morning thinking about how long her and your Dad have been married asking God to help her and wrap his loving arms around her knowing how hard it will be for her. Also praying for each and every one of you.

Sending lots of love and prayers your way. We are here if you need anything no matter what time day or night. We love you guys!

]]> By: jonny http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8302 Sat, 16 Apr 2011 22:08:12 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8302 Man, I seriously could use a “Like” button for some of these Say it!s !

]]> By: rockin robyn http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8301 Sat, 16 Apr 2011 21:03:00 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8301 My deepest prayers to you and your family. Thank you so very much for sharing your family with us here on babybloomr. It’s like we all know your pa so very well without knowing him for real. You came from good stock Tori and you are a strong and powerful woman in my eyes and in my heart… But I’ve turned all my worrying and sadness about you over to God and asked Him to hold you up in these special times because even though you appear to be a tough cookie you “are” the babygirl to these wonderful parents.

All my love Tori! (All in God’s time now… all in God’s time)

]]> By: MostlySunny http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8300 Sat, 16 Apr 2011 20:07:17 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8300 Your Dad is truly a blessed man – to have a family that has loved him so…what a legacy.

]]> By: bettyrwoodward http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8299 Sat, 16 Apr 2011 16:42:07 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8299 You’re bringing back memories with ‘he pets mine with his crooked index finger,’. That is just what my Dad used to do and he was only 89 when he went to be with the Lord. Love you Tori and am still praying for you and all the family.

]]> By: LindaB http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8298 Sat, 16 Apr 2011 16:15:06 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8298 What a sweet picture——you and dad caught in an act of “lotion” love that is probably what he did for all of his kids when they were newborn babies….a simple gesture to bring basic comfort to one who is relatively helpless. Your dad is an incredibly lucky man…..being smack in the center of this extraordinary loving circle that, thanks to the God of Love, will NEVER end. NEVER END! It’s a sweet picture indeed…..at times bittersweet and heart-stopping for you all, but with eternity in view, it is sweet indeed. The gentle passing of a life well lived…..so fitting for such a gentle man. I can only imagine what wonderful pleasures the Gentle Shepherd has in ready for your kind and gentle father.

That said, I do not completely dismiss your fiesty mother’s pronouncemnt, when told her husband would never be the same, of, “You wanna bet?”! She is a force to be reckoned with!

]]> By: auburn60 http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8297 Sat, 16 Apr 2011 15:33:00 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8297 Roaming around Hendersonville all day…know you are on my mind and in my heart,never far from my thoughts. Give your mom my love.

]]> By: Barbara M. Lloyd http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8296 Sat, 16 Apr 2011 14:55:30 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8296 Bathing you and your sweet family in our love and our prayers, dear Tori….and so thankful you can feel this.

I can tell you from personal experience that Hospice is wonderful….yet not as wonderful as a family surrounding a loved one so that he may feel the warmth of their love during days like these.

]]> By: Gramma Jac http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8295 Sat, 16 Apr 2011 11:48:51 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8295 jonny, you can never be too glad or too grateful!!! :-)

Tori, we’re with you,….’nuf said!

]]> By: jonny http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8293 Sat, 16 Apr 2011 10:12:41 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8293 Really sorry about that = / Thought the first one didn’t go through, then I wrote something different for the third one, but it repeated the second one !

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]]> By: jonny http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8292 Sat, 16 Apr 2011 10:06:38 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8292 Oh, and I believe we are glad, grateful you are there too = )

]]> By: jonny http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8291 Sat, 16 Apr 2011 10:05:49 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8291 Oh, and I believe we are glad, grateful you are there, too = )

]]> By: jonny http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8290 Sat, 16 Apr 2011 10:05:19 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8290 Oh, and I believe we are glad you are there, too = )

]]> By: jonny http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8289 Sat, 16 Apr 2011 10:03:26 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8289 Love you, too. So very much so. Thanks for the share.

]]> By: tori http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8288 Sat, 16 Apr 2011 04:50:42 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8288 ‘Bloomr family,

I’m sitting on my bed here in Arkansas. Daddy’s face when I walked in will stay with me for the rest of my life. I’ve spent most of the last couple of hours holding his hand– he pets mine with his crooked index finger, and then we hold each other’s gaze and just smile and smile like big ol’ possums.

The family is here, kids and grandkids coming in and out of the room, loving him. He stayed alert for a long period of time tonight, and smiles at each of us with such delight. Says a word or two every once in a long while. He is peaceful and appears to be pretty comfortable. My brother Matt and my brother in law David will be going in and shifting him in his bed every two hours all through the night to avoid bed sores–his skin is paper thin, we just rubbed lotion on him before we tucked him in.

He is absolutely surrounded by people who adore him.

I have no idea how long this phase will last, he has deteriorated very rapidly since Monday.

So glad I am here.

Love you guys– thank you, thank you for the prayers. I feel them.

]]> By: MostlySunny http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8286 Fri, 15 Apr 2011 22:46:32 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8286 We’re with you!!!! Thanks for letting us be a part of this for you. And your kids…this is Grandpa (or whatever they call him). It was hard for me to watch my children grieve.

Treasure even this…

]]> By: LindaB http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8284 Fri, 15 Apr 2011 19:05:24 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8284 We’ll pray too that things so smoothly at your home and with your immediate family that you can devote as much time as you want to help out with your mom and dad.

Did you get things straightened out about where Madi is going to stay when she goes off to college? We’ll pray about that too.

]]> By: DonnaMariePatterson http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8283 Fri, 15 Apr 2011 19:04:38 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8283 My heart is hurting for you and your family. Getting older is so hard! I’m so glad that we are all a family of faith and He hears our prayers! His power and love is enough to get us through. I will be praying for all of you and believing with everyone that God will give your mom wisdom and peace. My mom went home one year ago on April 4th. She passed at home in her bed and she was so ready to go. To this day, I still take the time to thank God for the hospice workers. They were the biggest blessing and help to us – I just can’t explain how great they are during a time like this.

You are surrounded with prayers from your bloomr family. You always lift us up with your humor, we’ll lift you up with our love.

]]> By: babygirl http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8282 Fri, 15 Apr 2011 18:38:44 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8282 It is indeed a privilege to be asked to pray for each other. We had a scare with my 86 year old mother last night. My sister called a bit after 9 saying mama had not been answering her phone. My husband and I drove over there and somehow her phone in the sitting room had been turned off and she couldn’t hear the ones in the living room or her bedroom. She hurt her hip somehow and is having trouble getting around. She’s been a widow for 38 years, and she’s having trouble adjusting to winding down. I need all the prayers I can get right now. I’m the youngest of 5 girls and the responsibility has been on my head since I was 11. Oh well, I’m not whining, I can just identify with what you’re going through. God Bless You with strength and courage.

]]> By: rachelbaker http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8281 Fri, 15 Apr 2011 17:52:38 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8281 Just like LindaB says, praying for each other is a privilege not a burden, so hog as much as you need.

]]> By: LindaB http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8280 Fri, 15 Apr 2011 16:47:10 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8280 Not “Torik”….I could say that’s my new little Arabic nickname for you….but it was a typo. Sorry.

I have a confession now. I’ve heard so much about your Mom’s compative Biblical views, I WANT TO HEAR THEM TOO!! She intrigues me! Tori, when things settle down and you have the time, I have a suggestion for a blog entry—–could you just talk to your Mom and ask her to impart some of her Biblical wisdom and “preacher intimidating” opinions for us? Or let us ask questions? Or give us her own “apostles creed”? Or something along those lines…….IF YOU DARE! I would love it! And I think the rest of us would too. You don’t want to “hog” all that treasury of a lifetime of wisdom and giving folks (especially preachers) some things to think about, do ya?

]]> By: LindaB http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8279 Fri, 15 Apr 2011 16:29:01 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8279 “He’s got arms just the right size for “big ol’ prayer hogs”! (GrammaJac)

AMEN, SISTER!! Ain’t that the truth! And I suppose all of us have been prayer hogs at one time or another and that’s a good thing—–it keeps us humble and real! And it gives God another opportunity to prove His faithfulness! I know at times when troubles seem to be coming in waves, I think I just CAN’T go to my praying friends AGAIN and ask for yet ONE MORE prayer……but I’m AFRAID not to. But when a group of praying friends share their prayer needs and God’s amazing answers, it seems to bond them in some kind of mysterious eternal way. And there’s no false “I’ve got it all together” goin’ on! I love you for providing us this cyber coffee shop to gather and pray for one another, Torik….(as well as laugh our heads off). And it is a privilege to pray for you and your family. And we will pray daily……even hourly…….and sometimes minute by minute.

And we will give special attention to your Mom—that though she must give up her long-loved husband for a short while, her Heavenly Father is still with her…..still watching over her, your dad, and her children….still ordering her steps minute by minute. His care is never changing. Keep us posted if you can.

]]> By: ginnh http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8278 Fri, 15 Apr 2011 16:26:17 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8278 Tori – since there are no limits on prayers, you can’t be a prayer hog. Lifes expected and unexpected speed bumps keep us all hanging in there together. I just wish I had your gift of words so that I could help you the same way you have helped so many others. We are going through the same thing with my wonderful mother-in-law right now. They have been married 64 years and I can see the fear in my father-in-laws face and hear it in his voice. We see him ignore what’s going on because although is mind knows the truth, his heart isn’t ready to accept it and maybe never will be. Realizing that fact was a big moment for me and I was finally able to understand why he did some of the things that seemed almost selfish. I’ll keep saying my prayers and add those wonderful hospice workers in there too.
Bobbi

]]> By: kidpyramid http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8277 Fri, 15 Apr 2011 15:57:09 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8277 Dear Tori,

I do know where you are at right now. I was there less than 2 years ago. My parents had been married 57 years – more than two-thirds of their lives spent together.

As hard as this is for you and your siblings your mom is losing a piece of her heart and she will be forever changed. She is stubbornly fighting for what she thinks is best for your dad because that has been her instinct for 73+ years. Be patient with her and yourself.

We will all pray for God’s peace to fill all of you.

]]> By: okdebby http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8276 Fri, 15 Apr 2011 15:51:02 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8276 Tori, my eyes are filled with tears for you and your family as you deal with this transition. I’ve been watching my dad fail physically for the past three years and I’ve reacted much like your mother – – and you have helped me see that it might not be so much about him giving in as me not wanting to give him up. As Phyllis R said “Daddy is Daddy and that is just it.” Thank you for allowing us to share this with you. I pray for peace for each of you. ~Debby

]]> By: phwd737 http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8275 Fri, 15 Apr 2011 15:40:22 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8275 Such a difficult stage in life…that of watching one’s parent’s final stage in life… :'(
My sisters & I have had to deal with this regarding our mom just recently. She was diagnosed with early dementia a year ago & was living with my younger sister until it seemed like all of a sudden, (within one week), she couldn’t get up or sit down by herself, couldn’t bathe herself, & had difficulty walking!
Although she’s not at the ‘hospice’ stage yet, we’ve had to put her in a ‘home’, since none of us are able to give her 24 hour care…(something we thought we’d never have to do)…
The nice thing is God led us to a home within a mile of my sister’s home where they care for 6 ladies & it feels much more like a real home instead of a large institution.
My prayers are with you & your family, Tori. May you all sense HIS great love & comfort at this time, as only HE can give.
Lovingly,
~Tricia Appler

]]> By: kay http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8274 Fri, 15 Apr 2011 15:34:07 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8274 My thoughts and Prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Watching a parent or anyone Go Home is not easy. May He give you the strength you and your loved one need during this time.
in HIM.
kay

]]> By: Phyllis R http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8273 Fri, 15 Apr 2011 15:33:55 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8273 Oh girl, my heart and prayers are going out to you. I don’t care what age they are or we are…Daddy is Daddy and that is just it! Working in Hospice I was glad to see that y’all are using that service. You are right…it is either a relief or dread. Give yaself a big ole hug!

]]> By: jonny http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8272 Fri, 15 Apr 2011 15:33:46 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8272 Yeah, all that I’ve personally experienced, and have heard about from others concerning hospice in the town where I grew up, was all good. I trust it will be for you and your’s as well = )

]]> By: meb http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8271 Fri, 15 Apr 2011 15:15:09 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8271 Having had experience with hospice on more than one occasion, I can say they are truly a blessing.
Keeping the entire family in my prayers.

]]> By: Barbara M. Lloyd http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8270 Fri, 15 Apr 2011 15:05:26 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8270 This is so sad…my heart is hurting just reading wshat is happening. As my younger son said one time: I know where he’s going and that he will be so much better off….but it still hurts. I am praying for you, sweetheart, for your mom and all of the family…..and thanking God for all of the beautiful memories you have that will bless you forever.

]]> By: Phyllis S http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8269 Fri, 15 Apr 2011 14:50:39 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8269 Many Prayer coming your way, with a long stop in Arkansas.
Love you, girlfriend.

]]> By: justmalia http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8268 Fri, 15 Apr 2011 14:45:22 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8268 Definitely sending prayers on your behalf. Love you, friend.

]]> By: gracelynn http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8266 Fri, 15 Apr 2011 13:35:16 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8266 Love you Tori! I know this has to be hard. Thankfully, my parents aren’t at that stage yet but they will be one day, and with me being the eldest child, I know where the responsibility will fall. So my heart goes out to you. I’ve been through it twice with my grandparents so I do have some understanding and am participating in it with my aunt who has the brain tumor. I’m praying as Jesus directed us – God’s will be done – in the entire matter. May you feel His loving arms around you today, my precious sister!

]]> By: auburn60 http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8265 Fri, 15 Apr 2011 12:59:01 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8265 I’m sure your mother will move toward her own acceptance in her own way, but I love how she wants to fight for him as long as she can! That little woman is my hero.

Being more a ‘Martha’ than a ‘Mary’ I want to take action: make beds, wash dishes, provide food…when people are hurting. It frustrates me to not be able to help in a concrete way when my friend hurts. But be assured constant prayers are going up–for everyone. I have a 2 hour drive today and God and I will be communicating the whole time.

]]> By: chillybean http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8264 Fri, 15 Apr 2011 10:33:10 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8264 Nathan just explained some of this and I am completely heartbroken. We will definitely be praying (amidst many tears) around here.
love, Colleen

]]> By: jonny http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8263 Fri, 15 Apr 2011 07:55:43 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8263 OK.., and OK !

]]> By: bettyrwoodward http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8262 Fri, 15 Apr 2011 07:08:12 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8262 Tori, of course we’ll be praying. Hard times ahead but God is good.

]]> By: delightedabroad http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8261 Fri, 15 Apr 2011 06:58:03 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8261 I’ll be praying of course and I recommend that you, Tori, don’t worry about posting right now. I will certainly be glad if you find the time and nerve to update – but never mind if not.

]]> By: Gramma Jac http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8260 Fri, 15 Apr 2011 06:01:51 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8260 P.S. I’m leaving in the morning for a conference in Chicago,…don’t know if I’ll be able to check in or not–hope so! I don’t know if I can go until late Sunday night without my Babybloomr fix!!! Y’all (tee hee from a Yankee none the less!) take good care of Tori!

]]> By: Gramma Jac http://www.babybloomr.com/2011/04/15/where-we-are-now/comment-page-1/#comment-8259 Fri, 15 Apr 2011 05:58:38 +0000 http://babybloomr.com/?p=4976#comment-8259 Dear “big ol’ prayer hog”,

Ya, so maybe you are,….so what?!? :-/ We love you and want to do what we can,…and in WI, USA, about all I CAN do for you is pray!!!

We have discovered that my husband’s parents aren’t remembering too well. Yesterday, my FIL came home from a week’s stay in a nursing home and my MIL was, um, shall we say, difficult! I know what you mean about that look of a 5 year old,…how scary all of this is for her, and for your Mom!

My Grampa and Gramma had such a strong marriage. She hated the fact that he died a lingering death, but, God knew what He was doing,…it took that long for her to be ready to let go. And while it was hard, and sad,…there were also so many sweet times of the family being together, sharing so many memories. So my advice is to do exactly what your family is doing and will do,…cling to each other, hold them tight in the (figurative and literal) arms of the family, love them like crazy, share laughter and tears,…and lean on God for comfort!
He’s got arms just the right size for “big ol’ prayer hogs”!

Know that there’s a whole bloomr nation out here sending you really tight hugs!

Jac

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